Carlos Xuma, who has spent years teaching hundreds of men flirting tips for guys and has been a dating expert and attraction adviser for more than 10 years. Appeared on ABC and CBS television, as well as Playboy radio. Author of The Bad Boy Formula, Secrets of the Alpha Male, the Girlfriend Training Program, and numerous other books and articles. Recognized for his work sharing dating advice for guys and sharing tips on pick up artist techniques and seduction techniques – has come up with a new Book, titled How To Attract Women: The Secrets Of What Women Want.
In short, the aim of the book is to unveil to the man out there, the Secret of How to Seduce a Woman.
According to Dating Expert Carlos Xuma,
“The secret to how to seduce a woman is learning how to tap into a woman’s emotions and use them to create a feeling of anticipation and excitement”.
In the book, the author advices the reader, to view every interaction with a woman with one purpose and one goal – to spark attraction and attract women.
To spark that attraction and attract women, the author discusses Dos and Don’t in his book. Like:
“The goal of a long, in-depth conversation is really to build up the attraction a woman feels for a man and gives the man an opportunity to get to know her and learn what she likes and what she doesn’t like. Ultimately, the conversation leads to seduction.”
To spark attraction in a woman, the man is talking too, Xuma shares a series of questions men should ask women that will help women associate positive feeling with the man. He calls them the “intrigue questions.”
The book not only outlines the questions men should ask, but also provides ground rules for how they should be asked.
For instance, one common rule, before asking any question to a woman is to first tell the woman the reason he is going to ask her that question. For instance,
“A man might say that he was driving by an amusement park yesterday and thought how interesting amusement parks were. He then tells the woman that seeing the rides led him to ponder how the rides at the park are designed….
“The man’s next step is to tie that statement he just made into an emotion on the woman’s part” says the author.
“He might tie that statement into an emotion by mentioning that the designers create a ride that is the perfect combination of dangerous, thrilling, exciting and addicting to the rider gets a rush.”
The next step for the man is to ask the woman about her favorite amusement park ride and how that makes her feel.
The author says that this seemingly simple technique of asking questions of intrigue, effectively make a woman associate that exciting feeling of being on a ride at an amusement park with the man who is asking her these intrigue questions.
“Done correctly, this is a really effective method to spark attraction and ultimately, to seduce a woman,” Xuma says.
But, a man should never use the technique negatively. This means he shouldn’t say self-deprecating things about himself, or raise controversial things about world in general, which includes Politics, religion etc.; and make the woman link the words to things gloomy, unexciting, violent and threatening.
About the Book:
by: Carlos Xuma
sales rank: 27010
FINALLY – A Simple Method That Shows You… How To Confidently Talk With Any Woman That Catches Your Eye.
Gain magnetic attraction with hot, quality women… And get inside secrets to hidden “attraction triggers” in a woman’s mind… so you have the unfair advantage in meeting and dating women.
Do you see attractive women you want to meet and talk to, but you lose your nerve and never approach her? Are you tired of going out to bars and clubs to meet women and end up drinking alone? Do you get nervous and shy with women, and chicken out when you try to meet women?
Would you like to get a girlfriend – but you don’t know what steps to take to make it happen?
Are you tired of being the Nice Guy – while some other Bad Boy walks away with the women you want?
FINALLY – Discover the secrets of what women want in this exclusive book from Carlos Xuma. Carlos reveals how to attract women and create the kind of sexual interest that will get you success with women that you only dreamed about before.
Imagine how your friends will envy you when you discover:
– How women decide whether you’re a man they can trust and let down their guard with – and how to make her feel like she’s known you for years…
– How to overcome the fear and paralysis of “approach anxiety.” Men everywhere feel this, and the shame of not being able to overcome it. Imagine being able to walk up and talk to ANY woman – anywhere you go with no fear and no rejection…
– What women really want in a man – the exact qualities she’s looking for, and how you can demonstrate them so she chooses you above all other guys…
– How to escalate with women from the first kiss to physical intimacy, with no fear of being “shut down…”
Stop falling into the “friends ONLY” bucket with women. There’s nothing more frustrating than taking a woman out and having her tell you she “just wants to be friends.” Find out how you can turn your female ‘friend’ into something much more sexual…
His strategies and techniques for building bulletproof confidence with women, as well as getting guys the women they want, have made thousands of guys into overnight successes in dating and “seduction.” Since 2002, he’s been on ABC & CBS television, not to mention Playboy and Maxim radio, and many other magazines and radio appearances.
Carlos Xuma – renowned dating and “pickup artist” guru – guides you step-by-step, no matter what your age, your income, or your looks. Carlos teaches you the Art of Alpha Attraction with women that most men will never discover.
You can know more about Carlos Xuma through his website.